Sunday, January 18, 2015

3 John 13-15

3 John 13-15
I was having much to write to you, but I do not desire to write to you through ink and reed.  And I hope to see you immediately, and we will talk face to face.  Peace to you.  The friends greet you.  Greet the friends according to their name.

Thoughts for Today

First Thought:

John tells us that he has much to say to Gaius, but he doesn’t want to say it in ink.  John knows a very subtle truth.  Spiritual discussion is much easier to have in person where it can benefit from intonation, body language, speed of discourse, and the natural give and take between participants.  John could spend hours writing something that could be discussed properly in minutes.  So John tells Gaius that he has more to say but that it can wait until they are face to face.  We should learn this lesson.  As important as writing can be, most spiritual conversation is done best in person.  Even as I write these blogs I am aware of this truth.

How do you use written truth?  How do you use spoken truth in conversation?  Which is more accessible to you?  Why?

Second Thought:

John then tells Gaius that he hopes to see him immediately.  John is telling Gaius that he is a priority in his life.  John does not want Gaius to feel that he is being pushed away by only receiving a short letter.  John desires Gaius to feel important enough for John to come to him and talk face to face.  It is important that we let the spiritual people around us feel important in our lives.

Whom do you make important?  In whose lives do you feel important?  How do you know?

Third Thought:

Finally, John ends with a greeting.  The people around John think fondly of Gaius.  John wants Gaius to tell the people around him that John thinks fondly of them.  In some ways this is a platitude.  But in other ways it is reassurance.  John wants the people to be affirmed that they have his blessing.  John wants to affirm with them where they stand with him.

When is affirmation helpful?  When are platitudes still beneficial?  Are you quick to gloss over platitudes or do you think of them as affirmation of what you believe to be true in relationship?


Passage for Tomorrow: Matthew 1:1-17

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