Passage
Because of this, God handed them over into the strong
physical desires of dishonor. For even
their women exchanged sexual functions according to their nature for relations
that are contrary to their natural development.
And likewise, even the men who departed from sexual functions with women
according to their nature were themselves inflamed with passion for each
other. Men were in men while committing indecent
behavior and while receiving into themselves the recompense that is necessary
according to their deviant behavior.
Thoughts for Today
First Thought:
Once more we hear the Greek word “paradidomi” (παραδίδωμι). God handed them
over to the strong passion. God handed
them over to their dishonor. The people
desired to be in relationship with something other than Him and He was
unwilling to force them to do anything against their free will. God allowed them to walk away under their own
power. This is a fundamental truth that
we must understand about God. He desperately
desires relationship with us, but He seeks genuine relationship. He will not force us to love Him; He will
call us to love Him while giving us the ability to walk away if we desire to do
so.
Why is it important for you to understand that you have the
power to walk away from God? Why might
it be important for you to own that you have walked away from God from time to
time?
Second Thought:
In this section, Paul specifically illustrates a truth that
we need to hear. One of the most
profound truths is that sexual deviance is one of the largest areas into which
people fall when they are no longer focused on God. We are sensual beings; some would even say
that we are sexual beings. It is clear
from our design how things are supposed to function. However, when we adopt a spirit of rebellion
we tend to rebel against the natural design.
God has created us to mate for life.
Yet in our rebellion we learn to mate with many. Or we learn to mate in ways that God hasn’t
created for us to mate. Perhaps we learn
to value sexuality over relationship. We
exchange our natural function of mating male and female for life and instead
adopt a lifestyle of deviant sexual pursuit.
When a person – and especially a society – turns in rebellion against
God we should expect sexual deviance to be not too far behind.
Can you say that this is true in your life? In those moments when you turned from God,
did you also become more sexually deviant – or at least find yourself prone to
sexual urges that are not what God would desire for you? If this is true, how can our sexuality help
us evaluate our closeness to God?
Third Thought:
Paul speaks about recompense. Deviant behavior brings consequence. When we pursue deviance with our heart, we
get the fruit of the act. What’s
interesting is that typically God doesn’t have to “punish us.” We usually create our own circumstance of
punishment. We literally get what we’ve
made. To quote a cliché, in deviant
behavior we make the bed in which we then need to lie.
When in your life have you rebelled from God and created a
circumstance of getting what you deserve?
Why is it important to have an understanding of repentance and
forgiveness when we are people who have sinful and deviant hearts?
Passage for Tomorrow: Romans 1:28-32